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Your Guide to Dating Online Safely


Dating online is one of the safest ways to meet people. You're not in physical proximity to the person you are talking to, and you have complete control over the information you reveal to them. But like any kind of relationship, you take precautions against unwanted attention. To do so you must set boundaries. Be deliberate in your thinking. Don't let your enthusiasm for someone lead you to an uncomfortable situation.

Dating Online -- Your Personal Information is Golden.

With online dating, you naturally want to showcase to a potential Cupid.com match what is special about you. Remember that you can't take back your personal information once you hit the Send key, so carefully analyze what you are revealing to a person.

With online dating, remember that innocent comments about your life, where you work, your children, or even your car can reveal more about you than you might think.

We can't stress enough the importance of protecting your personal and work e-mail addresses. When corresponding at Cupid.com, you are known only by your Online Name. If you do decide to provide a personal e-mail address, create a separate one for online dating.

When you're done with e-mailing, online chats, and talked on the phone, you both may decide to meet in person. Meet your date in a public place -- such as a restaurant or bookstore. Stick to your boundaries; never let your date pick you up at home. Tell a friend where you're going, with whom, and that you'll call them when the date is finished. You're not being paranoid, just cautious.

Respect the wishes of your Cupid.com match.

"Common sense is the least common of the senses." Well, in summary, pursue online dating with your common sense engaged and you'll have a great experience.

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