What do women want?
Men have been asking these very questions for millennia and, yet, they haven’t come up with a formula to crack that code. Well, we have. Here are a few ways to gain the trust, love, and respect of a woman, and plant yourself permanently in her vital organ.
1. Encourage Her
Women are having a moment. They’re being empowered and recognizing their worth on so many levels.
With this in mind, the key to a modern woman’s heart is to encourage her, build her up, and show her that you know her worth too. She will know your value by how clearly you value her.
2. Know Your Shit
Most women are attracted to knowledge and intelligence. It’s a right-and-ready turn-on when a man knows his shit.
But you don’t have to be a whiz about every topic. Knowing the ins and outs of something you’re deeply interested in is enough…but knowledge on a topic that she’s interested in would be an even better key.
So, jump down that rabbit hole every night until dawn. Once you’ve memorized all the Jane, the Virgin trivia you can take, you’ll win her over. That’s what the internet is for, after all.
3. Laugh, Laugh, LAUGH
No one – I repeat, NO ONE – likes a fuddy duddy. Humor is endearing, much needed, and is absolutely heart-warming. It serves as an icebreaker, a shared joy, and is something that will bond you for life.
Find love in laughter. Being able to light-heartedly tease each other and laugh at oneself is the best part of any relationship.
4. Don’t Hurt Her
More than likely, your woman has been burned before while dating. Most people have. Don’t be that guy. Be the good guy.
Be the man who doesn’t hurt her, the man who she can trust. The one she feels so comfortable with that she can talk to you about anything and everything.
Believe it or not, good women don’t want the ‘bad boy’. In the end, they want the one who treats them right.
5. Know Her Love Language
Most women I know love learning about love. They realize a relationship will not always be butterflies and rainbows. Relationships are hard work and, when you date a girl, taking the initiative to improve your love and the way you treat each other will be appreciated by a good woman.
One way to do this is to suggest that you take the 5 love languages test as a couple. This test will tell you how she likes to receive and show love – either through words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, physical touch, or acts of service.
Don’t only take the test: APPLY the knowledge to your love life. Your lady will recognize that you’re paying attention and putting the work in.
6. Treat Her Like the Queen She Is
The way to a woman’s heart is to treat her as though the sun shines out of her ass.
You don’t have to go overboard and roll out the red carpet for her (although, I know a number of women who wouldn’t say ‘no’ to the royal treatment), but you should regularly voice how special she is and treat her that way.
7. Love Who She Is
A woman wants to feel as though someone really sees her. And not just sees her, but loves her for who she is.
If you show her – through your words, your actions, and your presence in her life – that you absolutely adore who she is, how she is, and what she does, you will be playing every love song known to man on her heartstrings.
8. Plan for the Future
Most women want to know whether or not their partner is in it for the long haul.
Making plans for your future – and I mean significant plans; not just a trip to Chippewa next weekend – is a clear sign that you aren’t going to fling her aside once you’ve had your fun. An eye toward the future will show her you’re in it to win it.
9. Bring the Passion
The sweet spot in a woman’s heart is to be the person she wants to lean on in hard times and lean into in the bedroom.
Women need that extra oomph in their relationship. They want more than a good male friend; they need desire, passion. The whole package.
I don’t know a single woman who doesn’t like when her man turns up the heat in bed. So, come prepared. And change it up.
10. You Know, Just Be There
You get to a point in a relationship where your partner’s very presence makes things better. If you’ve found your way into a woman’s heart, just being there, always, will solidify your place there.
She’ll be watching and waiting for you in a crowded room. And you’ll be the only one she sees. And in that moment, all this work at winning her heart will be worth it. Now, where to find her?
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