How to Do a Perfect French Kiss – Step by Step Guide

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It is so amazing to kiss someone you like. It’s such a wonderful feeling when you melt into your loved one forgetting about everything else. So how to make it right? Learn these practical tips how to kiss using your tongue. Bonus advice is how to understand she is ready for it.

French kissing techniques for you and your girlfriend

  • 1. Make it soft
  • Make sure the state of your lips is soft enough. It is not very pleasant to kiss dry or chapped lips. So if you want to make your kiss feel unbelievable, make the lips soft and well moisturized. By the way, dry lips can be a sign of inner dehydration. Drink more clean water (not juices, tea or coffee). If you have a date and your lips are chapped, use a chopstick or a balm. Girls can apply some gloss. But do it before the big kiss. Your partner should feel the amazing taste of your lips and not the makeup on it. If you are about to kiss and you have no time to prepare, just lick your lips. Lick them while looking right into her eyes to seduce her. This trick will turn on your date and remove your little trouble.

  • 2. Keep it fresh
  • Dental hygiene is critical even when you aren’t going to French kiss in a minute. But if you are so lucky, make sure you have fresh breath. Brush your teeth properly before to go out on a date, or at least rinse them out with clean water. Try to avoid bad smelling foods like garlic, onion, pepper, and fish. Another emergency tool to freshen your breath up is a menthol mint or a chewing gum. Visit a restroom and use your menthol mints for a minute. Better do it in private to hide this preparation.

  • 3. Look into her eyes
  • focus on your date

    All the right kisses start with the eye contact. Just look into your date’s eyes, make your gaze long and deep. Then look down to her lips, then back to her eyes. When we like someone or something, our eye pupils enlarge. You can move your gaze through your date’s face and body or even bite your lower lip.

  • 4. Keep smiling
  • Though it can be your first French kiss and you might be a bit worried about it, don’t forget to smile. People are happy when they feel good with a person they like. It is especially nice to smile while kissing when you still feel your partner’s lips. Or you can smile with teeth, but make sure your smile look natural.

  • 5. Don’t be afraid to touch her
  • Make your partner get used to your touches and break the touch barrier. It is not easy to do, but it should be done before kissing.

    If it’s easier for you, you can start with touches only. Take her hand, stroke her arm, shoulder or knee. There are some especially sensitive places on a female body like hands, neck, butt or back. You can use stroke carefully her legs or back while she is sitting on your lap.

  • 6. It’s time to get closer
  • You feel it’s a time to move your body closer to hers. Make it slow to give her a chance to withdraw, if she doesn’t feel the same (hopefully not). Slow moves increase the tension and passion of the intimate moment and give her opportunity to get used to each other.

  • 7. Focus on your date
  • look-into-her-eyes

    Next step in a French kisses method is to tilt your heads slowly so you would not bump your noses. Close your eyes when you feel your partner’s lips on your mouth. Keeping your eyes shut helps you focus on the moment and on the person you are kissing with. There could be many distracting things around you two. You can even stand in the crowd full of noises. So close your eyes to not to let anyone ruin the magic of the moment. Open your mouth slightly to let your date’s tongue get inside it.

  • 8. First kisses
  • They have to be with a very light pressure. Like you just stroke your date’s lips with yours. Act very slowly, because such kisses have much higher level of intimacy than quick ones.

  • 9. And finally how to kiss your girl with your tongue
  • When you understand both of you like to kiss each other, move forward and open your mouth a little wider. Stroke her tongue with yours gently. Don’t act too aggressively, especially if it is your first experience of kissing with that person. You have to feel if your partner responds to your attempt of such a kiss. If she likes it, she will allow you to continue. If not – she can even move her head to stop. Don’t be upset, it just means she is not ready. So be patient and just wait until the next time.

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  • When to kiss with tongue
  • It feels amazing to kiss someone like that. It’s a culmination when both of you can’t wait and get more intimate. But how to understand when it is the right time to do so? Here is the advice to help you.
    • You are alone with the person you wish to kiss. There is no one around you, who could stop you from enjoying the moment.
    • Both of you have to be happy, calm and in a romantic mood.
    • Your partner is trying to sit very close to you, staring at your lips and looking deep into your eyes. Maybe, there will be an awkward situation when you don’t know what to talk about anymore because you want to kiss and not to talk. And the level of tension is extremely high.
    • Your date is about to end; all was really good, and you really enjoyed spending time with each other. You can kiss with tongues in a car or close to your door.
    • It feels just right to move this far with no explanation why.

    Follow these tips, but also follow your heart and body to lead you on and get some experience!

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