How to Use Socionics When Meeting New People


Most people know whether they’re an introvert or an extrovert, but that’s usually where a person’s insight into his own psyche ends. But human beings are complex, and there’s obviously more to us than whether we prefer to spend time alone or in a group. So what more is there?

This is where Carl Jung and Antoni Kępiński come in. The two blend theories on psychological types and information metabolism that can help determine and categorize your own psyche model and interpersonal relations model. Together, a modified blend of these theories is called socionics, and it applies eight psychological functions to the competency and interactions between people. Understanding your own socionic type in relation to other types can help you anticipate your feelings and responses to situations or to individuals of other sociotypes.

To be more specific, the psychological functions and information elements of each sociotype correspond differently, resulting in varied styles of information perception. The way these types process and create information as well will differ, which in turn relates to an individual’s specific values, thought processes, and reactions to stress or conflict, for instance. Some socionic types are complementary, while others are in conflict, which means the individuals of these types are either likely or unlikely to get along. By uncovering the “inverse task” of socionics, one can find those who are psychologically and emotionally compatible, which is exactly how socionics can serve you when meeting new people. But how to apply this?

Take the Socionic Test to Determine Your Type

Determine Your Type

To apply socionics to your own relationships or potential relationships, you’ll first need to know your type. Online tests can help you figure this out. The test will list two statements and ask you to decide which statement more accurately describes you and to what extent. For instance, you might have to choose whether you are more “attuned to people, relationships, and emotions” or “attuned to logic, knowledge, and empirical data.” You must also determine to what degree you relate to either of the statements. After completing the 75 questions, you should have a defined sociotype, which will describe your interpersonal relations, as well as how you process information and convey your thoughts.

Discover Your Dual

Socionics Test

According to Model A, two different sociotypes are ideally compatible with each other, resulting in duality. Duals are opposing forces – opposites that create balance. Though one may be extraverted and one introverted or one sensing and the other intuitive, both will be the same rational or irrational dichotomy. In a sense, duals “complete” each other with their give and take. They understand each other on different levels than the individual may understand his or her own self. And being made aware of one’s own traits, issues, or talents by your “other half” provides for a more rewarding relationship.

Search for Your Dual

While it’s easy to say “opposites attract,” it’s not so easy to find your opposite. But once you’ve discovered which dualities are compatible with your own, you’ll know which traits to look for in that potential partner. When you find your dual, you’ll know, because the psychological distance will be close and comfortable. You will feel relaxed and genuine in their presence, and your dual will help you discover yourself in a whole new light. This discovery will fulfill both parties’ ego functions, which is most likely to result in a lasting and committed relationship, where each partner can grow to his or her full potential.

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