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Once you sign up to Cupid’s paid membership, chat rooms are included in the package. That’s to say there’s a “free” gay chat, making it easier to meet gay men around town. Each profile also marks what someone is looking for, be it men, or women, or both so you can search for gay men when looking for dates.

There are countless gay men out there who, just like you, are looking to find the right partner to start a long-term relationship with. The difficulty is finding them. Attending events and venues which are tailored to other gay men is a good place to start, but the process can eat up a lot of time – something that’s become luxury for a lot of us.

That’s what’s so great about our gay chat room. You know that the other men in the chat room are there for the same reason: they want to find a partner to settle down with. It’s a great way to get a conversation going with someone in a safe environment and see if any sparks fly.

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What’s also so great about online dating is that you can search for people in your local area, yet find people who aren’t part of your social circle. In a smaller town, you might want to look for gay men in nearby towns and villages if you already know all the single men in your town. In a larger city, you can find men from the other end of town whom you’d otherwise never meet. A local chat room simply has a wider reach than a local bar, or pub.

The chances of meeting men online are greater than at any bar, or party as well. Why? Because there are more single men online than at any one place in town. Possibly because you can bring a gay mobile chat room with you in your pocket anywhere you go. Plus, you don’t both have to be online at the same time to meet - it’s simple enough to send someone a private message if they aren’t online and available to chat right then and there.

Offline, the only way to meet is to be at the same place at the same time. Takes a lot of serendipity, doesn’t it?!

Gay Men: Chat Room Manners

In one of Cupid’s gay chat rooms, there are certain unwritten rules. Similar unwritten rules you’d find in any bar.

First of all, be polite. Politeness goes a long way in winning people over.

Secondly, whilst being flirtatious is encouraged, don’t come on too strongly. You don’t know the other person yet, so chances are they find it strange if you flirt too much, too soon. Besides, you want to build up tension - that’s the whole point with flirting. So start slowly and then take it further. That way you will always leave the other person wanting more.

Thirdly, Cupid is a place where people are looking for serious relationships. Whilst casual dating is part of the road to a serious relationship, it’s not the end goal. Bear that in mind when chatting to people.

Also, remember that Cupid is just a meeting spot, just like a bar. Once you’ve chatted for a while and realise there’s chemistry, you have to meet up offline to see if you have real life chemistry. There’s no point in chatting online forever. Ask someone out for a coffee as soon as possible.

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