You are strong and self-dependent, but at the times of weakness you need someone by your side, someone who can help you with advice or support. Online dating is a good for you to begin new stage in your life. The time to forget your terrible marriage and exhausting divorce has come, the only thing to do is to create a profile and start communication. Talking to people who are in the same or somehow similar situation can be the best remedy. You can find true friends, who can always be there for you, who can make you laugh and forget about all the daily routine. Later, when you see that you have a lot of in common, share similar tastes and hobbies, you can go out for a date and see whether this relationship is worth trying.
In case you have been a single parent for a long time, it will take a little effort to adjust to the other person. But these efforts are worth of it, as you will not be alone any more. Look thoroughly, as you know whom you need, what you are looking for in your partner. This person should be kind and attentive to you, as well as respectful and caring.