100 Tips for Seducing a Woman

Seducing a Woman

As the God of Love, I know what it takes to put a woman under my spell.

Don’t get me wrong, you don’t need spells, potions, or magic arrows. All you need is a little confidence, charisma, and charm to pull her in.

The following 100 tips for seducing a woman aren’t tricks…they are treats for the both of you.

  1. Be yourself (unless you are an asshole)
  2. Show your smarts. Smarts are super sexy and seductive
  3. Have artistic abilities? Those will reel her in hook, line, and sinker
  4. Be gentle at times and powerful at others
  5. Listen. There’s nothing more seductive than someone who cares
  6. Help her out. It’s easy and it’s useful
  7. Take care of yourself physically
  8. Be comfortable financially. Money is seductive, because it shows you are reliable and responsible…
  9. …and having a nice car never hurts anyone 😉
  10. Dress well. You’re not in high school anymore
  11. Cultivate your talent. Passion is sexy
  12. Be crazy sometimes
  13. Be a “bad boy” sometimes
  14. Compliment her body
  15. Compliment her brain
  16. Look deeply into her heart
  17. Be present for her
  18. Spend time with her
  19. Send charming messages
  20. Prepare her breakfast
  21. Know how she likes her coffee
  22. Know what makes her happy
  23. Don’t forget anniversaries
  24. Tell her how beautiful she is
  25. Surprise her on occasion
  26. Be her fix-it man
  27. Give her a gift
  28. Prepare a romantic dinner
  29. Do things she loves to do
  30. Call and ask about her
  31. Respect her choices
  32. Caress her body
  33. Kiss well and passionately
  34. Be generous in bed
  35. Meet her friends and family
  36. Be confident and not cocky
  37. Be hygienic and use body spray
  38. Turn on some music as you turn her on
  39. Set mood lighting
  40. Focus on her erogenous zones
  41. Move forward slowly
  42. Buy her chocolate
  43. Give her flowers
  44. Be a responsible man
  45. Make her laugh
  46. Be patient
  47. Think about the ambiance of romance
  48. Take her on a trip
  49. Wash the dishes
  50. Don’t play games
  51. Tell her stories
  52. Sext seductively
  53. Get sweaty
  54. Get dirty
  55. Give her a petname
  56. Ask about her day
  57. Write a poem specially for her
  58. Build something for her
  59. Buy jewelry for her
  60. Take her on an adventure
  61. Charm a crowd
  62. Be protective
  63. Encourage her to do the things she loves
  64. Believe in her
  65. Be dangerous
  66. Be spontaneous
  67. Try new things in bed
  68. Draw her a bath
  69. Massage her
  70. Pamper her
  71. Whisper beautiful things in her ear
  72. Write her love messages where she least expects them
  73. Pick her up on the airport
  74. Speak to her in a foreign language
  75. Suit upH
  76. old her hand when you walk
  77. Be a gentleman sometimes
  78. Be an animal other times
  79. Sing to her
  80. Dance with her
  81. Netflix and chill
  82. Create memories together
  83. Take her into nature (and then take her in nature)
  84. Plan a day-trip for her
  85. Know her needs
  86. Let her be emotional
  87. Be her shoulder to cry on
  88. Give her advice ONLY when she asks for it
  89. Celebrate her
  90. Tell her why she’s your one and only
  91. Praise her gifts and talents
  92. Admire her in all ways
  93. Show her off
  94. Be romantic, but not cheesy
  95. Okay, sometimes be cheesy, because that’s cute too
  96. Set up a scavenger hunt for her
  97. Charm her family
  98. Be her rock
  99. Be trustworthy
  100. Be there for her when she needs you most

In the end, seducing a woman isn’t some sort of secret formula. If you’re in love, it should come naturally. Take it from Cupid: all you need is love.

Okay…I may have stolen that from The Beatles.

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