15 Signs She Wants You – You Can Really Know That For Sure!

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Many guys feel insecure when it goes about moving to the next stage and getting intimate with the woman. How to know if she is ready or not? Can you reduce your chances of rejection or feeling dumb by reading the signs? Let’s find out now!

Major signs a woman wants you:

Some of the things listed here are not even signs, they are rather billboards! However, men still manage to miss them. So, stop being so focused on your persona and desires and pay attention to her! And you will clearly understand how she feels about getting busy with you!


1. Her consent

Surely you are not a rapist and will not force the woman into it. So what are we talking about here? Well, in most cases, it’s not an event, but rather is a process. And you go through it step by step. And on each of these steps, you should get her consent and see how she reacts. You touch her for the first time and see what she does. Does she pull away or draws closer?

You kiss for the first time and see how she reacts. And so on and so forth. If she consents and enjoys every step of it, you can know for sure; she really wants you!

2. She gets touchy

It’s like a green light! If the woman feels horny or wants the man, she touches him a lot. This means she feels comfortable with him and wants more of it. She quickly breaks this physical barrier and enjoys it.

3. She becomes inquisitive

She asks about your plans or the place you live in and its availability. It’s first sex, man. Do not count on it to be quick and hot. Women love it to be romantic, passionate and time-consuming. So, she may be checking up on your plans and time availability. She may want to spend the whole night and part of the morning with you afterward. Or she would like to know how beautiful the place is you take her to for the first experience.

Pay attention to such questions. And make sure you have both – the time and a nice place to take her to! Clean up your house and make it as romantic and lovely, as you can!

4. She compliments you

If a girl tells you nice things or compares you to some hot celebrity, she is into you. And it’s not just about romance; it’s the desire!

5. She laughs at your jokes

You are old enough to admit this simple fact: not all of your jokes are funny! And she knows it, but… if she covets you; she would laugh at all of them, even the dumbest! You can run a quick test. Make a stupid joke and watch for her reaction.

6. She talks sex

She can make few “dirty” jokes or pick up this topic and share some peculiar details on her experience. Or just talk about sex. It’s a sign she is thinking to have sex with you.

7. She dresses up sexy

See a change in her style? Does she seem to be going an extra mile to look hotter, when are around you? Good! This means she desires to attract you sexually and be of the significant interest to you.

8. She shares food

If you are out eating together, she offers you to taste something from her plate. It means she is open for a closer contact!

9. She shows much skin

Have her outfits become more appealing? Is she a head turner now? Well, showing off more skin means she is ready to show even more!

10. She sexts you

Surely, if the girl likes you, she texts you regularly, but once she starts sexting you… it’s an awesome sign! Get ready!

11. She wants to be with you

If she does not miss any opportunity to spend time with you, it’s great. It means she is into you. Some men think a woman can be into them, but have no desire to have sex with them. It’s impossible. Yes, female sexuality works a bit different from the male one, but we all are humans. If she likes you, she really wants you!

12. She invites you over to her place

It does not necessarily mean you should have sex with her then and there, but you are getting one step closer. Remember, it’s a process! Do not be too pushy!

13. She does tongue kissing

If she is open for that, she is testing you, how good it would feel to go for more! So, do not get completely carried away when kissing. Pay attention to what she does and how she reacts on your touches, tongue, etc.

14. She asks about your past sexual experience

This is a big thing. If she does that, she surely is thinking about sleeping with you. Most ladies are very conscious about their health. So, that may be one reason she wants to know your past.

15. She makes the first move

At this stage, it means two things. First, you have managed to miss all the above-listed signs! Second, she wanted you badly and decided to go for it anyways! You are a lucky man and she is really into you, as she did not give up while waiting for you to make the first step!

Not all the girls can make that first step, though. So, guys, make sure you do know the signs and follow them! She may be burning down from the desire, and you fail to initiate the intimacy. As you see, all these signs are about being attentive and focused on the girl. Lots of guys get either too timid or too pushy because they are focused on themselves instead. Get refocused and have amazing moments with that woman.

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