How to Get a Guy to Kiss You? – 10 Best Tips for Ladies

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Ladies, do we even have to worry about it? Don’t guys just dream to kiss the girl? Well, yes, they do, but there are obstacles that can stop them. So, if you are ready for the first kiss or wish to be kissed more often, follow these tips.

How to get your boyfriend to kiss you:


What are some of the reasons a guy may not kiss you? Well, the major one is this: he is too shy. Or, he may not be into you that much. In this case, why would you even want him to kiss you? But if he is into you, he might be too shy to do that or afraid you would reject him. Here is what you do to get what you want.

1. Make your lips extremely desirable
Lip care is essential. If your lips look cracked, dry and unpleasant, the boy may never risk kissing you. So, go an extra mile to make them irresistible! When you brush the teeth, use a soft brush to rub your lips with it. Remove all the dead cells and make them nicer. Next, apply lip softening and moistening balm. It will keep the cracks away.
Drink up a lot of water. You want to keep your lips soft and well hydrated. And use a nice lipstick. If your lips are too small, you can visually enlarge them by combining two colors and using a highlighter.

2. Maintain oral hygiene
Do I even need to mention it? Brush your teeth before the date. Avoid eating any smelly foods at least one day before the date. And use gums and mouthwashes to keep the breath fresh.

3. Look your best
Scientists have discovered that men are moved to kiss girls if they like their faces; while girls want to kiss men if they smell well, and their teeth look good and clean! So, take your time to do the makeup. Style your hair to look your best.

4. Give him the signs!
What are these magical signs? Well, most guys read about them in articles of various dating gurus or coaches. You can use them to communicate and get across your desires. The first one is breaking down the touch barrier. It would be odd to kiss someone you never even touched!
So, draw a bit closer to him. Touch his hand, when you two talk. Bump into him “accidentally” when you walk together. And see how he reacts. If he is touching you, too, it’s a good sign.
This helps the shy man to summon up the courage and kiss you. You may also play with your hair or touch your lips during the conversation. Or, look him in the eyes and then shift your gaze down to his mouth. It shows him you are interested.

5. Tune up your voice
Women have that super sweet temper of voice they use on the men they like. Use it to flirt with him. When you two get alone, make your voice super appealing to get him melting down and boosting his desire.

6. Stage the situation
If he likes you, he surely spends all this time thinking: is this the right moment? Is she in for a kiss? Can I do it now or do I wait till later? Would she reject me, if I kiss her? All these thoughts buzz in his mind. He is afraid to make a mistake. So, stage it all up for him. If you are at a restaurant, ask him for a walk, where you two can be alone. Draw nearer to him or pretend you are cold. Stop for few minutes to look at the moon and face him. Look him in the eyes and lean closer. Say something romantic.

7. Talk about kisses
You may ask him, who was the first girl he kissed or how passionate was his first kiss. This would get him thinking in the right direction. Or share a story of your first kiss or the kiss you loved the most in your life and flirt by saying you expect someone to break that record and improve your experience!

8. Hold hands
Not just touch his hand, but hold hands while you talk or walk. This might also work while watching the movie. You may also lean on his shoulder.

9. Stay confident
Men love that. Do not show how nervous you are. Do not let the thoughts daunt you and make you less confident. Why does not he kiss me? What if he does not want me? Keep all that out. He is with you on a date. If that’s the first date, you may not want to rush things. But if he asked you out again, it means he is interested. Get in his shoes. The man is spending his time with you, and if he is a good guy, he may have many other claims on it. He spends money on the dates with you. So, surely he wants to kiss you.

10. Kiss him
If you want it that badly, and he is too shy, just go ahead and kiss the man. Surely, you should not do it out of the blue. Follow all the tips listed above. Maintain the eye contact, flirt, touch your lips, make them kissable, and touch the fellow. It’s not an event; it’s a process. So, go through the whole thing and then either ask him to kiss you or kiss him first!

Ladies, if you use these tips, most guys won’t be able to resist you. They will break down the barrier and their shyness and kiss you. If not, you know what to do. After all, what do you have to lose? If the guy is not into you and does not want to kiss you, why waste your time on him?

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